Our sexual organs are always communicating with us.

These power centers, right at the base of who we are, are relating information to us when they excitedly into something and when they are not interested. 

Sometimes, it is obvious when they enjoy something and are a f*ck yes, while other times it’s a mix up. There can be incongruently with how we desire a particular thing and not have our body respond the way we think it should. It can be quite confusing, even frustrating especially when “you” are ready and wanting something, but there are parts of your body that are clearly not into it.


When a client comes to me to address a sexual issue such as erectile difficulties, inorgasmia, stifling shame, or lack of overall desire, more times than not- it is related to something deeper.

If there is no medical reason for the “issue”, I take them on as client and we begin the work because there can not be a malfunction for absolutely no reason.

Surprisingly or maybe not so, the issue is typically related to something that has yet to be resolved or dealt with within the client. Perhaps there is come thing that hasn’t been spoke about, expressed, felt, or seen by the client. This can manifest as a number of things in the body such as health issues, tension, skin rashes, anxiety and inability to engage and much more- keeping the client from having or doing what they authentically want.

But it isn’t for no reason.

Clients come to me frustrated, at their wits end, feeling closed off and even claim to be broken or self diagnosed as frigid. I understand and I can relate. It can be quite embarrassing or a big source of pain in even the most loving relationship – not be able to perform or engage the way you want to or may have in the past.

Instead of spiraling into negative despair or something being wrong, I invite the client to look with curiosity. What is it exactly that the body is trying to say byway of this “issue” or trouble?

My passion and purpose is to assist the client in sinking in deeper beyond the mind chatter, beyond story or labels and instead drop into their own body’s intelligence that is speaking so clearly and profoundly.

The body holds messages and it’s vital for us to tune in and listen, especially when there is trouble or the body is not functioning the way you want it to sensually.

I sat with a client today who had all sorts of old buried beliefs and what I refer to as “programs” carefully and quite artfully hidden from his own awaking, conscious mind.

I call these programs because our whole way of being in the world runs on these programs that we adopt in life through our parents, through trauma, through various experiences and so on.

So, if we have programs that are not up to date with how we grow, ways we evolve and change with new thoughts and new perspective, they will sabotage anything and everything in order to stick to the old program or old script and we may not even realize it.

Clients say to me “Well let’s just make a decision to do something different then.” and i wish it were as easy as just doing it different. Some things are like that, while other things remain deeply engrained where there is no amount of couching, crystals, positive affirmation sticky notes- you name it – that will shift it the way you want it for good.

The thing is, you can not simply talk your way back to what you want and expect your body to just cooperate. This is why so many New Years resolutions bite the dust. It isn’t because you don’t want it enough- it’s because of the old program, the old script that needs an update so to speak- so that you can navigate in the world not based on the past scripts, patterns, beliefs and so on.

You can not reach these buried beliefs and old scripts you have running with your waking-conscious, rational mind because they are neatly stored deep in the subconscious; a place you can only access through a shift in conscious state. Self Hypnosis allows you to reach these places to create the new program, new belief, new way of being. 

Back to my client: his hidden treasures or old programs at one time serve a positive purpose for him but were now cock blocking him (literally) from experiencing orgasm, climax and enjoying sensual delight the way he wanted to.

His mind and body were all set to go after what he wanted but his cock was telling him “hey! something isn’t ok with me!”

Turns out, his old belief or old script was telling him sex is only for people who are married and that it is a sin to do otherwise. His cock was keeping him “safe” and to the script – by not engaging and by not participating.

He thought he was broken. He wasn’t, it’s was his body trying to run on an old script that it still believes on some level even thought his mind now believes something completely different today- that sex is beautiful and amazing and he doesn’t need to be married in order to enjoy.

Once he dove deep into his own inner mind with Self Hypnosis, he was able to address what he was not aware of with his waking / rational mind and magic happened! He untangled and dissolved these old scripts and programs and was able to move forward powerfully with his cock in congruency with his mind and body. F*ck yes!

If you are experiencing difficulty, I invite you to listen and pay attention to what little messages or not to little messages your body is sending you in the form of not participating in what you think it aught to. It’s no accident that your #cock or #pussy or even your entire body, is trying to communicate something by not functioning how it is designed to in pleasure and erotic joy.

Our body’s are magnificently intelligent! Listen.

Listen closely and curiously,

Melissa Mango

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